I think it's fair to say that I'm a fiercly independent person. I have been, since the age of four when people thought it was a good idea to call me Katie, & I thought otherwise - & told them. It's a trend that has continued throughout my life (I have, & always will be a Kathryn). I like to do things my way.
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It has really hit me this year, at 26 (26?!) that I'm an adult - & an independent one at that (i.e. with my husband, who is my partner). I pay bills. I have a salary, a 401(K) & a corporate Amex. I plan & cook my own meals. I rent a Manhattan apartment. I travel internationally, without the help of my parents - & I don't even have to ask them permission to go. I have Mrs. in front of my name. I can make big decisions on my own. I get catalogue after catalouge in my mailbox. I sign contracts. I could have children, & that would be normal.
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I am a grown-up. I am independent.
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Except for the fact that I will always, always need my mom.
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I didn't realize until I reached this adulthood that it wasn't really normal to talk to your mom once (or 5 times) a day. Sufficeth to say, my mom is on speed dial & if it weren't for Verizon-to-Verizon minutes, I'd have a pretty ridiculous phone bill each month & Mike might not be very happy.
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How do I make buttermilk?
What can I get (insert name) for her birthday?
Have you read this book?
I need your help.
What can I make for dinner with only cornflakes, ketchup & beans in my cupboards?
Hello.
It's snowing.
I hate New York today.
I love New York today.
My friend wants to make your cinnamon rolls. Can you help us step-by-step?
I just found my dream shoes - but they're $500.
I'm sad. Please make me feel better.
A mucus plug?! I've never heard of such a thing. Please explain.
I'm sick. My symptoms are (insert here). How do I get better?
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I love my daily conversations with my mom. Sometimes they're brief, sometimes they're long, but they always happen, & cumulatively - they mean the world to me. My mom is a fierce supporter of her children, a fantastic example of someone who truly loves & lives the gospel, & a true & good friend. Her happiness is tied to her family. I really love her for that, & I always, always know that she loves me.
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Happy Birthday, Mom.
6 comments:
very thoughtful and creative... she's a luck Mom...
what a beautiful tribute to your mother. it's funny how we sometimes just need our mom...even when we're married and living away and doing our own thing.
Your mom is so cute-- tell her I say happy birthday too.
Um, why were you asking your mom about mucus plugs? That is just weird!
That is the sweetest thing I've ever read. You are SO lucky.Happy Birthday Jan!
I love her too for helping me with the cinnamon rolls that turned out so great for Chloe's blessing day brunch!
your mom is a doll, happy birthday!
Now really - I am indeed the lucky one here. Who would have imagined that a few short years ago the sweet little baby I was holding in my arms would one day grow into such a beautiful and extraordinary woman? You are such a blessing in my life, and I am so thankful that we are such great friends, as well as mother and daughter. I've got the best of both worlds!!!! The great thing is that we learn from one and other...you are my teacher, as well. I love and cherish that more than you know!
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